tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post114342301609362880..comments2023-09-16T08:09:55.065-04:00Comments on Window Into My Reality: What were You thinking?Cierahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06193974545066147524noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1144628420560671402006-04-09T20:20:00.000-04:002006-04-09T20:20:00.000-04:00Sounds like a lovely husband indeed (note intense ...Sounds like a lovely husband indeed (note intense sarcasm in this remark.) I sincerely hope they're in counselling.<BR/><BR/>I'll pray for you all.carmilevyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00360045114379957605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1143727421521990082006-03-30T09:03:00.000-05:002006-03-30T09:03:00.000-05:00thanks everyone. I'll post more later, as I am go...thanks everyone. I'll post more later, as I am going to see her later today. She hasn't replied to my email yet, so no doubt it will be discussed. Maybe she's talked it over with her husband and they've decided to keep me [I mean, really, what would they do without me?!?!] Still, I hate feeling like I have to "perform at a certain level" to be worthy of friendship. Daydreamer typed in a hymn for me over at her site...I was so very touched last night by it...even though, especially?, since it is my friend's favorite hymn. Gotta run, my fifteen minutes are up.Cierahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06193974545066147524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1143688667419166512006-03-29T22:17:00.000-05:002006-03-29T22:17:00.000-05:00Got a message for ya.....Got a message for ya.....Daydream believerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16259945255409666329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1143664837399314802006-03-29T15:40:00.000-05:002006-03-29T15:40:00.000-05:00Oh sweetheart. What all the others said. Hear it a...Oh sweetheart. What all the others said. <BR/><BR/>Hear it again: it's NOT you. You know where thoughts like that come from. One tip: it's not God. <BR/><BR/>(((hugs))) and you are in my prayers.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06653551637409929553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1143651359849598322006-03-29T11:55:00.000-05:002006-03-29T11:55:00.000-05:00Your friend's husband is way too controlling. How ...Your friend's husband is way too controlling. How can he tell his wife to sever four friendships? You certainly shouldn't be his, but his wife should be able to make her own mind up.<BR/><BR/>You've done nothing wrong here.Jean-Luc Picardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01689798190618944262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1143649933410718262006-03-29T11:32:00.000-05:002006-03-29T11:32:00.000-05:00Ciera, my thoughts as I read your post were the EX...Ciera, my thoughts as I read your post were the EXACT thoughts that Daydream Believer shared. I was relunctant to share them earlier. I felt like this might be a God thing. <BR/><BR/>Strained relationships with other women are not healthy and are destructive to our lives. Been there, done that. Glad it's over.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1143643402047690982006-03-29T09:43:00.000-05:002006-03-29T09:43:00.000-05:00First of all...who is her husband to tell her to c...First of all...who is her husband to tell her to cut off a friendship. Or - is she hiding behind him. She is not your friend RIGHT now. So, you don't have to worry about cutting it. I hate to see you hurt. It isn't a reflection on you...it is a reflection on her. God might want this relationship out of your life and is now providing a way to end it without you having to second guess yourself.<BR/><BR/>Pray, and write. God loves Robin.Daydream believerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16259945255409666329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16513595.post-1143596579094785002006-03-28T20:42:00.000-05:002006-03-28T20:42:00.000-05:00I will pray for you and your friend. Hopefully sh...I will pray for you and your friend. Hopefully she will see the light someday.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17954119926276783439noreply@blogger.com