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Actually...I already knew this, but took the test anyway...nice to know I know myself pretty well...!!!....LOL!

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch: 12
Quality Time: 9
Words of Affirmation: 6
Acts of Service: 3
Receiving Gifts: 0


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Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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Daydream believer said…
YOU'RE back!!!!

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY :)

I missed you. How's the B-friend? E-mail me!

Liz
8/10/2006 10:53:00 AM
Cliff said…
Well, gee! I give you, like the best birthday present ever, and then I look at your love languages. Receiving gifts gets a big fat zero! I see how it is! I know when I'm not wanted!

(just joking of course)
8/10/2006 11:00:00 PM
utenzi said…
I don't know about all that, Ciera. A far easier philosophy is to just jump in the sack and if everything works then move forward with the relationship. On the other hand, I've not noticed that strategy to work any more reliably than any other. Frankly, relationships are just too much damn work!

PS I feel pretty damn sure you're not going to subscribe to my philosophy--but that's okay, Ciera. It's not for everyone. LOL
8/11/2006 03:41:00 PM
Ciera said…
Daydreamer - okie dokey!

Cliff - you goof ball! If you rememeber right though...you're gift included quality time with you and the fam. :P gifts are cool and I appreciate them, but time and touch will communicate a lot more to me on a romantic level. It should be interesting someday as Boyfriend says he likes to give gifts...so that'll be one area of my life I'll have to work on!!!!! I honestly have trouble accepting gifts from some people, ya know????

Utenzi: you're different philosophy doesn't bother one bit. We're all different and different things work for different people.
8/13/2006 07:19:00 PM
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