Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Yet

I submitted a payment plan to the Housing Authority, to see if I can't stay where I am at...but I have yet to hear back from them.

It's hard to believe that rumors are just rumors when the Boyfriend lets the other woman flirt with him in front of me. And it's all at work, so it's not like I can just take her out back and beat the crap out of her. Maybe he honestly doesn't realize how it looks to me...willing to give him the benefit of the doubt...cuz I 'm a fool most likely! :) At least I'm a cute one!

Does he know how much it hurts me to see him joking around with her? Hello?! I'm the girlfriend...and since he's busy right now helping his cousin build onto his house, I think I deserve just a little bit of attention when we're all at work together. Like, HE needs to tell her her to back off and walk in the opposite direction when I'm trying to get him in a corner alone for a few minutes on our break time...although if she has any brains at all, she wouldn't need to be told!!!! hello?! If she's truly his "friend" she should respect the girlfriend a little bit more and back the f off. Of course, Jerry made a comment the other night about how kids her age are just stupid. {shrug}

I also am PMSing bad and really really really really want some chocolate...!!!

8 comments:

Daydream believer said...

Gertrude Hawk alert! Smidgens on the way!!!!

Ciera said...

ah, Daydreamer...how you tempt me...

Jean-Luc Picard said...

Ciera, you don't deserve to be used that way; tell him that if he doesn't stop the flirting, that's it. You are being insulted by him.

Daydream believer said...

Trip her. :)

Paige said...

He will never know if you don't tell him. He could take it a few different ways. laugh & say you are silly, tell you it is true, tell you he didn't realize it looked that way and will not it any more. Good luck
By the way have you prayed about it?

Kat said...

Uh yeah. I'll repeat others' comments and state the obvious: Tell him! Apart from anything, he's a boy. Boys aren't good at hints. They need plain speak. Shame, but that's how they're wired.

All the best, and I'll be praying.

Cliff said...

OK, take it from a guy. We can be pretty dumb about that stuff about 95% of the time. As a guy, I can tell you that he may not have a clue. You MUST talk to him about it. If you are going to maintain any kind of relationship with a guy, you have to be able to talk about...well...everything. That includes (and this is actually REAL important) how they relate with other women. He may not realize that you take the relationship so seriously that you are offended by flirting with another girl. He may consider other girls fair game because there isn't THAT serious of a commitment. (The girl may look at it that way too.) I hate to suggest this, but it's true that guys can be this dumb. He may not even realize that the girl is trying to flirt with him. I don't know what the case is here, and there are numerous other possibilities, but you must talk with him.

Ciera said...

thanks everyone. As usual I'm short on time, but I'll post a little later this week about the things that have been happening. We have had a few chances to talk, and things are ok.

I didn't even have to trip her...yet...LOL!